Myths and Facts about Binge Eating Disorder

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Sponsored by Center for Discovery, written by Barbara Spanjers, MS MFT

Binge eating disorder (BED), an eating disorder more prevalent than anorexia and bulimia, is widely misunderstood. The lack of awareness and understanding has a lot to do with the delay in receiving the status of an official diagnosis, as BED was only finally included in the DSM-5 (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, 5th Edition) in 2013. Prior to the most recent edition of the DSM, binge eating fell into the catchall category of the “Eating Disorder Not Otherwise Specified” diagnosis.

The official recognition of BED as distinct from other eating disorders helped raise awareness, which in turn broadened insurance coverage and thus allowed more people to access treatment. Unfortunately, many people are not able to identify the symptoms of binge eating disorder in themselves or a loved one. They may think they merely need tips to control themselves around food, without recognizing the seriousness of their experience.

Myths about Binge Eating Disorder

Myth: Bingeing is no big deal.

Truth: A binge is not the same thing as emotional eating or ov­­ereating (eating past the point of physical fullness). To be diagnosed with BED, the DSM-5 requires that there are recurrent episodes of binge eating, which are characterized as:

  • Eating, in a discrete period of time (e.g., within any 2-hour period), an amount of food that is definitely larger than most people would eat in a similar period of time under similar circumstances
  • The sense of lack of control about eating during the episode (e.g., a feeling that one cannot stop eating or control what or how much one is eating)

By this definition, bingeing is qualitatively different than eating a large restaurant meal or feeling stuffed after Thanksgiving dinner. Most people are likely to eat past fullness on those occasions. Rather, bingeing is a unique experience. It is usually done in secret and followed by feelings of guilt or remorse.

Myth: Binge eating disorder only affects higher-weight people.

Truth: One of the biggest myths is that body size determines an eating disorder diagnosis. Nothing could be further from the truth. An accurate diagnosis of any eating disorder relies on an individual’s thoughts, feelings and behaviors around food, and also includes feeling distressed about body size.* For example, although the DSM-5 criteria for anorexia nervosa includes “significantly low body weight,” people of any size can have all the other symptoms of anorexia and need treatment for it. Similarly, binge eating disorder has no size; the behaviors (bingeing) and level of distress inform the diagnosis.

Myth: People who binge just need more willpower.

Truth: Although bingeing may seem to be self-indulgent—or even seen as gluttonous—it’s quite the opposite. Surprisingly, BED is as much grounded in restriction as are anorexia and bulimia. Most people with BED try to atone for their binges by dieting or at least trying to counterbalance with “healthy” eating. However, this typically means undereating, which helps drive ongoing binges from a physiological perspective. Restriction can also be psychological. When we deny ourselves certain foods because they are seen as unhealthy or forbidden, those very foods become the ones we crave.

Myth: Finding the right weight loss plan will cure binge eating disorder.

Truth: This is a common myth, even among medical and mental health providers. Unfortunately, some providers offer weight loss programs along with treatment for binge eating. This is not evidence-based care and can do harm. Effective eating disorders treatment is weight-inclusive, where each patient is evaluated on their relationship with food and body, apart from their body size.

Facts about Binge Eating Disorder

  • Over 30 million Americans will have an eating disorder in their lifetime, and 2.8% of the population will develop BED. 1 That is over 9 million people. This number is similar to the incidence of panic disorder.
  • Fewer than half of those with bulimia nervosa or BED ever seek treatment for their eating disorder.1
  • Men are three times more likely than women to have subthreshold BED. This means the disordered eating is significant but does not meet all the criteria for a formal diagnosis. 1
  • Researchers observe “the ‘democratization’ of disordered eating” because behaviors have especially increased for older people, males and those with a lower socioeconomic status. 2
  • Almost 40% of those with BED are male. 3
  • Bingeing can serve a role in a person’s life. For example, many people with BED report bingeing to numb out and avoid uncomfortable feelings. Effective treatment works to broaden the range of coping skills.
  • Females and males show subclinical disordered eating behaviors at almost the same rate. These behaviors include laxative abuse, fasting, binge eating and purging.

Unfortunately, even some eating disorder treatment providers operate on myths about binge eating disorder, which results in a barrier to treatment for those who need it, inadequate care, and trauma after not getting initial help. Effective treatment of BED does not focus on weight. It does not attempt to get people to eat less. Rather, it seeks to improve their relationship with food and understand the dynamics of diet culture.

If you are seeking care for yourself or a loved one, search for providers who are aligned with the Health at Every Size® philosophy and contact Center for Discovery about Path to Peace, a specialized program for binge eating disorder.

Barbara Spanjers, MS MFT, is a therapist and wellness coach who helps people feel more attuned with food and their body. Learn more.

1 Hudson, J.I., Hiripi, E., Pope, H. G. Jr, & Kessler, R. C. (2007). The prevalence and correlates of eating disorders in the National Comorbidity Survey Replication. Biological Psychiatry, 61(3), 348-58. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.biopsych.2006.03.040

2 Mitchison, D., Hay, P., Slewa-Younan, S., & Mond, J. (2014). The changing demographic profile of eating disorder behaviors in the community. BMC Public Health, 14(1).

3 Westerberg, D. P. & Waitz, M. (2013). Binge-eating disorder. Osteopathic Family Physician, 5(6), 230-233. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.osfp.2013.06.003 

4 Mond, J. M., Mitchison, D., & Hay, P. (2014). Prevalence and implications of eating disordered behavior in men. In L. Cohn & R. Lemberg (Eds). Current Findings on Males with Eating Disorders (pp. 195-215). Routledge.

*Avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID) is an eating disorder exception to feeling distressed about body size.

Yoga

  • Reconnect with one’s body
    • Promotes mind-body connection, awareness of self, and acceptance.
  • Stress and anxiety reduction
    • Yoga activates the parasympathetic nervous system, counteracting our body’s stress responses.
    • Deep, slow breathing can reduce cortisol  levels (stress hormone) and help calm our minds.
  • Intentional movement
    • Yoga provides a space to mindfully enjoy movement and explore a healthy form of exercise.
  • Long term healing
    • Provides a practice to safely and sustainably lean into.
  • A space for community and support
    • Oftentimes, yoga is done in a group setting, which can increase feelings of connection and lower feelings of loneliness.

After the completion of 7–12 yoga classes, a statistically significant decrease in anxiety, depression, and body image disturbance was seen (Hall et al., 2016).

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Some classes are targeted for rigorous exercise, such as “heated flow” or “power flow.” Please be mindful with what you practice, and look for “slow flow,” “yin,” “vinyasa,” and “restorative” yoga in non-heated rooms.

Music

  • Music can have a powerful effect on people’s mood

    • listening to uplifting or calming songs can help reduce stress and anxious feelings.
  • Music stimulates the limbic system, the part of our brain responsible for processing emotions
    • music triggers the release of serotonin and dopamine, which are associated with reducing feelings of anxiety, depression, and stress (which are often associated with eating disorders)
  • Slow tempo music has been shown to decrease cortisol, our stress hormone, as well as lower blood pressure and reduce heart rate.
  • Music increases the brains neuroplasticity, enhancing brain functions like mood regulation, decision making, and memory.

A study done by Mindlab International revealed that the song “Weightless” by Marconi Union resulted in a 65% reduction in participants’ overall anxiety (Dr. David Lewis-Hodgson).

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  • Ludovico Einaudi
  • Claude Debussy
  • Johann Sebastian Bach
  • José González
  • Laraaji
  • Bill Evans
  • Vance Joy
  • The Paper Kites
  • Moby
  • Tycho

Aromatherapy

  • Aromatherapy can be a helpful, low- cost (or free) tool for people managing eating disorders.
  • Aromatherapy involves using essential oils to help manage emotions and restore balance.
  • Scents can help ground people, encouraging mindfulness about physical and emotional sensations.
  • Can promote a tranquil environment and give a sense (& scent) of peace.
    • creates an atmosphere for individuals to feel safe in processing emotions

Lavender has been shown to reduce anxiety levels. It is seen as a “anxiolytic” solution to providing a coping method for those with anxiety disorders (Yoo & Park, 2023).

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  • Lavender: calm, sleep, relax
  • Chamomile: calm
  • Rose: anxiety reduction
  • Lemon: energy, nausea reduction, concentration
  • Orange: brighten, uplift
  • Jasmine: anxiety reduce, sleep
  • Peppermint: alertness
  • Ylang ylang: calming, stress and anxiety reduction
  • Rosemary: focus

Art

  • Art can help provide a safe space for communication.
  • It can promote a sense of relaxation, and become a calming, meditative like experience (especially in “flow state”).
  • Gives an outlet and coping mechanism for managing difficult emotions.
  • Helps develop healthy habits and routines for self-management.
  • Increases an individuals sense of awareness and understanding of their emotions and thoughts.

Art can boost cognitive function, emotional resilience and self-confidence. It has also been shown to reduce stress and aid in conflict resolution (Hudson University, 2024).

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  • Coloring books
  • Digital coloring or drawing
  • Collaging
  • Sketchbook/journaling/ diary
  • Painting
  • Water coloring
  • Air dry clay (model magic) or traditional clay (ceramics)
  • Photography (use your phone!)
  • So much more!

Creative Journaling & Writing

  • Journaling allows space for self reflection, and emotional release.
  • Free writing can help you connect to your inner voice without judgment.
    • This can look like a steam on consciousness, a short story, or even poetry.
  • Both of these can give you space to problem solve, and look at a situation from a new angle.
  • Try out a prompt, or guided writing exercise if free writing isn’t your thing.
    • Examples & resources below!

Positive writing has been shown to promote positive emotions, as well as positive cognitive mechanisms in the general population (Lai et al., 2023).

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  • What are three things I’m grateful for today?
  • Write a letter to your future self. What do you want to tell them?
  • Write about a positive affirmation you want to start telling yourself.
  • How do you like to relax? Write about your favorite way to unwind.
  • What does “peace” look like to you? How can you bring more of it into your life?
  • What is something that always makes you laugh or brings you joy?

Self-Care / Self-Talk

Positive Self Talk

  • Positive affirmations are short, encouraging statements that can help build our self-esteem and challenge negative thoughts.
  • Repeating these statements daily can help foster a more loving relationship with yourself over time.
    • “Mirror-work” is when you look into the mirror and say kind, positive affirmations to yourself. It might feel awkward at first.
    • Try statements such as “I am enough,” “I am deserving of all the good things life has to offer,” or “I am strong, capable, and confident in everything I do.”
  • This can help build mental resilience, making it easier to cope with challenges and setbacks.
  • They can elevate your mood and promote a more optimistic view of life.
  • They help build confidence and self-worth by focusing on your strengths and capabilities.

Self Care

  • Self-care directly impacts emotional, psychological, and physical well-being.
  • Engaging in regular self care practices helps maintain balance and resilience, ensuring we can cope with life’s challenges.
  • Regular self-care allows the body and mind to recover, recharge, and maintain a sense of calm.
  • Taking care of yourself helps prevent burnout by ensuring you have the energy and mental capacity to meet the demands of life.
    • Without regular self care, you may become overwhelmed, leading to fatigue, frustration, and decreased productivity.
  • Giving yourself mental space helps clear your mind, improving focus, decision-making, and problem-solving.
  • Allows you to engage in activities that bring you joy, pleasure, and fulfillment. These experiences elevate mood and provide moments of peace and happiness.

Positive Self Talk

Affirming personal values has been linked to boosting ones happiness and meaning in life (Nelson et al., 2014). MRI’s show that self- affirmations affect brain activity! (Cascio et al., 2015).

Self Care

“Engaging in a self- care routine has been clinically proven to reduce or eliminate anxiety and depression, reduce stress, improve concentration, minimize frustration and anger, increase happiness, improve energy and more. From a physical health perspective, it has also been clinically proven to reduce heart disease, stroke and cancer” (Glowiak, 2024).

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POSITIVE SELF TALK

 

SELF CARE

  • Up to personal preference, ideas listed in the guide
  • Sleep: Make sure you get enough hours in
  • Making time for hobbies: painting, gardening, etc.
  • Doing chores: cleaning dishes, doing laundry, cleaning space, decluttering
  • Spending time outdoors: taking nature walks, sitting in a park
  • Being with people you love: friends, family, partners
  • Reading or learning: something of interest, and limiting technology/screen time
  • Personal care: shower, bath, deep breathing, meditation, massaging
  • Treating yourself: occasionally indulging yourself with something you love (ex: buying a new book, or a coffee from your favorite shop)
  • Mental care: attending peer support groups (for free with ANAD!), going to therapy (we can help connect you with someone)