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Nourishing the Soul: Recovery Beyond Food

Nourishing the Soul: Recovery Beyond Food

By: Erica Butler, PhD, LMFT, CEDS, IEDS (Blue Ridge Eating Disorder Care Center)

When people think about eating disorder recovery, food is often the first thing that comes to mind. And while nutritional healing is absolutely essential, recovery is about so much more than restoring meals, snacks, or physical health. Eating disorders impact the entire person; emotionally, socially, spiritually, relationally, and psychologically. Because of that, true healing requires more than physical nourishment alone.

At Blue Ridge, we often talk with adolescents and families about the importance of “nourishing the soul” alongside nourishing the body.

So, what does that actually mean?

Reconnecting With Joy

Eating disorders tend to consume space that once belonged to hobbies, interests, creativity, and play. Recovery often involves helping individuals rediscover what makes them feel alive outside of the eating disorder. This may look like:
  • Listening to music that evokes emotion
  • Painting, drawing, or creating
  • Spending time outdoors
  • Dancing for enjoyment rather than calorie burn
  • Reading, journaling, or writing
  • Reconnecting with sports or activities in non-compensatory ways
  • Laughing with peers and family again

Joy itself can become a form of nourishment.

Nourishing Through Connection

Eating disorders thrive in isolation. Healing often happens in connection. Supportive relationships help nourish:

  • Safety
  • Identity
  • Self-worth
  • Belonging
  • Emotional regulation


This may involve:

  • Family therapy
  • Safe friendships
  • Group therapy
  • Vulnerable conversations
  • Allowing others to help
  • Learning to trust again


For many adolescents, recovery is the first time they begin to realize they do not have to struggle alone. ANAD’s peer support programs can be a great place to start building connection!

Rest as Nourishment

Many individuals with eating disorders struggle with rest. Productivity, perfectionism, overexercise, and self-criticism can create guilt around slowing down. But rest is not laziness. Rest is healing. Nourishing the soul sometimes means:
  • Sleeping adequately
  • Saying no
  • Taking breaks
  • Allowing unstructured time
  • Practicing self-compassion
  • Letting the nervous system feel safe

Recovery asks individuals to learn that worth is not earned through exhaustion.

Identity Beyond the Eating Disorder

Eating disorders can become deeply intertwined with identity. Recovery often involves asking difficult but important questions:

  • Who am I outside of this illness?
  • What matters to me?
  • What kind of life do I want?
  • What relationships do I value?
  • What brings meaning to my life?


Part of soul nourishment is rebuilding a sense of self that is not centered around body image, control, achievement, or food rules.

Emotional Nourishment

Many eating disorders function as coping mechanisms for overwhelming emotions. Recovery requires learning how to experience feelings safely rather than numbing, controlling, or avoiding them. Emotional nourishment may include:
  • Therapy
  • Processing grief or trauma
  • Learning coping skills
  • Emotional expression
  • Mindfulness
  • Self-validation
  • Feeling emotions without judgment

Healing involves recognizing that emotions are not dangerous…they are human.

Purpose, Meaning, and Hope

One of the most powerful parts of recovery is watching individuals reconnect with hope for their future. Over time, nourishment begins to look like:
  • Planning for college or career goals
  • Rebuilding relationships
  • Developing independence
  • Advocating for others
  • Exploring spirituality or personal values
  • Imagining a life beyond survival

Recovery creates space for people to build lives that feel meaningful, not just medically stable.  

Recovery Is Whole-Person Healing

Food is essential. Nutritional rehabilitation saves lives. But full recovery involves much more than eating again. It is about:
  • reconnecting with humanity,
  • rebuilding trust,
  • rediscovering joy,
  • tolerating vulnerability,
  • and creating a life that feels worth living beyond the eating disorder.

Healing the body matters deeply. But so does nourishing the soul.
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Yoga

  • Reconnect with one’s body
    • Promotes mind-body connection, awareness of self, and acceptance.
  • Stress and anxiety reduction
    • Yoga activates the parasympathetic nervous system, counteracting our body’s stress responses.
    • Deep, slow breathing can reduce cortisol  levels (stress hormone) and help calm our minds.
  • Intentional movement
    • Yoga provides a space to mindfully enjoy movement and explore a healthy form of exercise.
  • Long term healing
    • Provides a practice to safely and sustainably lean into.
  • A space for community and support
    • Oftentimes, yoga is done in a group setting, which can increase feelings of connection and lower feelings of loneliness.

After the completion of 7–12 yoga classes, a statistically significant decrease in anxiety, depression, and body image disturbance was seen (Hall et al., 2016).

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Some classes are targeted for rigorous exercise, such as “heated flow” or “power flow.” Please be mindful with what you practice, and look for “slow flow,” “yin,” “vinyasa,” and “restorative” yoga in non-heated rooms.

Music

  • Music can have a powerful effect on people’s mood

    • listening to uplifting or calming songs can help reduce stress and anxious feelings.
  • Music stimulates the limbic system, the part of our brain responsible for processing emotions
    • music triggers the release of serotonin and dopamine, which are associated with reducing feelings of anxiety, depression, and stress (which are often associated with eating disorders)
  • Slow tempo music has been shown to decrease cortisol, our stress hormone, as well as lower blood pressure and reduce heart rate.
  • Music increases the brains neuroplasticity, enhancing brain functions like mood regulation, decision making, and memory.

A study done by Mindlab International revealed that the song “Weightless” by Marconi Union resulted in a 65% reduction in participants’ overall anxiety (Dr. David Lewis-Hodgson).

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  • Ludovico Einaudi
  • Claude Debussy
  • Johann Sebastian Bach
  • José González
  • Laraaji
  • Bill Evans
  • Vance Joy
  • The Paper Kites
  • Moby
  • Tycho

Aromatherapy

  • Aromatherapy can be a helpful, low- cost (or free) tool for people managing eating disorders.
  • Aromatherapy involves using essential oils to help manage emotions and restore balance.
  • Scents can help ground people, encouraging mindfulness about physical and emotional sensations.
  • Can promote a tranquil environment and give a sense (& scent) of peace.
    • creates an atmosphere for individuals to feel safe in processing emotions

Lavender has been shown to reduce anxiety levels. It is seen as a “anxiolytic” solution to providing a coping method for those with anxiety disorders (Yoo & Park, 2023).

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  • Lavender: calm, sleep, relax
  • Chamomile: calm
  • Rose: anxiety reduction
  • Lemon: energy, nausea reduction, concentration
  • Orange: brighten, uplift
  • Jasmine: anxiety reduce, sleep
  • Peppermint: alertness
  • Ylang ylang: calming, stress and anxiety reduction
  • Rosemary: focus

Art

  • Art can help provide a safe space for communication.
  • It can promote a sense of relaxation, and become a calming, meditative like experience (especially in “flow state”).
  • Gives an outlet and coping mechanism for managing difficult emotions.
  • Helps develop healthy habits and routines for self-management.
  • Increases an individuals sense of awareness and understanding of their emotions and thoughts.

Art can boost cognitive function, emotional resilience and self-confidence. It has also been shown to reduce stress and aid in conflict resolution (Hudson University, 2024).

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  • Coloring books
  • Digital coloring or drawing
  • Collaging
  • Sketchbook/journaling/ diary
  • Painting
  • Water coloring
  • Air dry clay (model magic) or traditional clay (ceramics)
  • Photography (use your phone!)
  • So much more!

Creative Journaling & Writing

  • Journaling allows space for self reflection, and emotional release.
  • Free writing can help you connect to your inner voice without judgment.
    • This can look like a steam on consciousness, a short story, or even poetry.
  • Both of these can give you space to problem solve, and look at a situation from a new angle.
  • Try out a prompt, or guided writing exercise if free writing isn’t your thing.
    • Examples & resources below!

Positive writing has been shown to promote positive emotions, as well as positive cognitive mechanisms in the general population (Lai et al., 2023).

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  • What are three things I’m grateful for today?
  • Write a letter to your future self. What do you want to tell them?
  • Write about a positive affirmation you want to start telling yourself.
  • How do you like to relax? Write about your favorite way to unwind.
  • What does “peace” look like to you? How can you bring more of it into your life?
  • What is something that always makes you laugh or brings you joy?

Self-Care / Self-Talk

Positive Self Talk

  • Positive affirmations are short, encouraging statements that can help build our self-esteem and challenge negative thoughts.
  • Repeating these statements daily can help foster a more loving relationship with yourself over time.
    • “Mirror-work” is when you look into the mirror and say kind, positive affirmations to yourself. It might feel awkward at first.
    • Try statements such as “I am enough,” “I am deserving of all the good things life has to offer,” or “I am strong, capable, and confident in everything I do.”
  • This can help build mental resilience, making it easier to cope with challenges and setbacks.
  • They can elevate your mood and promote a more optimistic view of life.
  • They help build confidence and self-worth by focusing on your strengths and capabilities.

Self Care

  • Self-care directly impacts emotional, psychological, and physical well-being.
  • Engaging in regular self care practices helps maintain balance and resilience, ensuring we can cope with life’s challenges.
  • Regular self-care allows the body and mind to recover, recharge, and maintain a sense of calm.
  • Taking care of yourself helps prevent burnout by ensuring you have the energy and mental capacity to meet the demands of life.
    • Without regular self care, you may become overwhelmed, leading to fatigue, frustration, and decreased productivity.
  • Giving yourself mental space helps clear your mind, improving focus, decision-making, and problem-solving.
  • Allows you to engage in activities that bring you joy, pleasure, and fulfillment. These experiences elevate mood and provide moments of peace and happiness.

Positive Self Talk

Affirming personal values has been linked to boosting ones happiness and meaning in life (Nelson et al., 2014). MRI’s show that self- affirmations affect brain activity! (Cascio et al., 2015).

Self Care

“Engaging in a self- care routine has been clinically proven to reduce or eliminate anxiety and depression, reduce stress, improve concentration, minimize frustration and anger, increase happiness, improve energy and more. From a physical health perspective, it has also been clinically proven to reduce heart disease, stroke and cancer” (Glowiak, 2024).

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POSITIVE SELF TALK

 

SELF CARE

  • Up to personal preference, ideas listed in the guide
  • Sleep: Make sure you get enough hours in
  • Making time for hobbies: painting, gardening, etc.
  • Doing chores: cleaning dishes, doing laundry, cleaning space, decluttering
  • Spending time outdoors: taking nature walks, sitting in a park
  • Being with people you love: friends, family, partners
  • Reading or learning: something of interest, and limiting technology/screen time
  • Personal care: shower, bath, deep breathing, meditation, massaging
  • Treating yourself: occasionally indulging yourself with something you love (ex: buying a new book, or a coffee from your favorite shop)
  • Mental care: attending peer support groups (for free with ANAD!), going to therapy (we can help connect you with someone)