Body Image in Warmer Weather: 5 Ways to Navigate Food, Social Events, and Recovery

In Collaboration with BALANCE eating disorder treatment center™

With longer days and warmer weather around the corner, many people look forward to spending more time outside, whether that means beach days, barbecues, vacations, or milestone events like prom and graduation. While this season can feel exciting and refreshing, it can also bring challenges, especially for those who struggle with their relationship with food or body image. The good news is that with the right support and coping strategies, food and body concerns do not have to interfere with you or a loved one enjoying the season.

Why Can Spring and Summer Be Difficult?

Although every season can bring challenges for those struggling with eating disorders or body image distress, these concerns can intensify during the spring and summer months. Activities like going to the beach or pool may involve wearing a bathing suit, and warmer weather often means wearing shorts, t-shirts, or tank tops, which can feel especially vulnerable for someone experiencing body image concerns.

Spring and summer often bring changes in routine and structure. For students, summer break may mean less structure from school, while adults may take vacations or time off from work. With more downtime, some people may spend more time on their phones or social media, where body comparison and diet culture are common.

In addition, many spring and summer gatherings revolve around both food and appearance. Barbecues for occasions like Memorial Day and the Fourth of July, graduation celebrations, vacations, and work events often include shared meals. There may also be more spontaneous plans with friends, like grabbing ice cream or going out to eat. Milestone events such as prom, weddings, and summer parties often involve dressing up or being photographed, which can bring added pressure around appearance.

Here are five strategies to help someone in eating disorder recovery or experiencing body image concerns navigate the warmer months.

1. Wear What Feels Good to You

There may be trends or popular styles this time of year, but there are no rules about what you can and cannot wear. You deserve to dress for any occasion in clothes that feel comfortable and help you feel your best. You do not have to keep clothes from last year that no longer fit or feel right. If choosing an outfit feels stressful, it may help to plan ahead so you know what you’ll wear the day of an event and avoid added pressure. And remember, clothes are meant to fit you. You are not meant to fit your clothes.

2. Be Mindful of Social Media Use

Social media can contribute to body comparison, especially when “summer body” messaging and appearance-focused content are everywhere. If you notice that scrolling leaves you feeling worse about yourself, it may help to take breaks from certain platforms or accounts. It may also be helpful to stay offline on particularly difficult body image days. It is important to remember that many social media posts are edited, and people often share only what they want others to see.

3. Surround Yourself With The Right People

The people you spend time with can impact how you feel about yourself. Spending time with people who frequently talk about calories, diets, the food at events, or how they look in clothes can worsen eating disorder thoughts and body image concerns. It is okay to spend time with people in smaller settings if large gatherings feel overwhelming. You deserve to be around people who make you feel comfortable, safe and supported. If you find yourself in a conversation that feels uncomfortable, it is okay to ask to change the subject or step away.

4. Make Sure You Eat

There is unfortunately a lot of diet talk and conversation about skipping meals this time of year, but your body still needs nourishment. Even if your schedule looks different. Even if you’re having a difficult body image day. Even if you feel anxious about wearing a swimsuit. Even if others around you are skipping meals. If you have an event later in the day, you still deserve to eat beforehand.

5. Lean on Your Support System

Even if you do everything you can to stay on top of eating disorder and body image thoughts, things can still feel overwhelming. It’s okay to reach out for support to help you navigate an event, a vacation, or the season as a whole. You might check in with a family member at a party, plan ahead with a friend, sit with someone you feel comfortable with during a meal, or ask someone to go shopping or to a buffet with you. You could also schedule additional sessions with your therapist. Support from people you trust can make these moments feel more manageable.

Prioritizing Recovery During the Warmer Months

Warmer months can bring added pressure around food, appearance, and social events, but your recovery is still your priority. Because recovery is not linear, it is normal to experience challenging moments along the way. With the right support and planning, it is possible to enjoy the summer without food and body concerns taking away from experiences.

Spring and Summer Eating Disorder Recovery Support at BALANCE

If the spring and summer months bring added stress around food, body image, or social activities, you or a loved one deserves support. At BALANCE eating disorder treatment center™ in NYC, our 14-Day Spring and Summer Programs provide structured support seven days a week, helping clients navigate recovery during a season when routines, travel, and social events can feel more challenging.

BALANCE is in-network with UnitedHealthcare, Cigna, EmblemHealth, and Oscar, and will soon be in-network with Aetna, helping make eating disorder treatment in NYC more accessible. You can schedule a free consultation call with our admissions team to learn more here.

Yoga

  • Reconnect with one’s body
    • Promotes mind-body connection, awareness of self, and acceptance.
  • Stress and anxiety reduction
    • Yoga activates the parasympathetic nervous system, counteracting our body’s stress responses.
    • Deep, slow breathing can reduce cortisol  levels (stress hormone) and help calm our minds.
  • Intentional movement
    • Yoga provides a space to mindfully enjoy movement and explore a healthy form of exercise.
  • Long term healing
    • Provides a practice to safely and sustainably lean into.
  • A space for community and support
    • Oftentimes, yoga is done in a group setting, which can increase feelings of connection and lower feelings of loneliness.

After the completion of 7–12 yoga classes, a statistically significant decrease in anxiety, depression, and body image disturbance was seen (Hall et al., 2016).

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Some classes are targeted for rigorous exercise, such as “heated flow” or “power flow.” Please be mindful with what you practice, and look for “slow flow,” “yin,” “vinyasa,” and “restorative” yoga in non-heated rooms.

Music

  • Music can have a powerful effect on people’s mood

    • listening to uplifting or calming songs can help reduce stress and anxious feelings.
  • Music stimulates the limbic system, the part of our brain responsible for processing emotions
    • music triggers the release of serotonin and dopamine, which are associated with reducing feelings of anxiety, depression, and stress (which are often associated with eating disorders)
  • Slow tempo music has been shown to decrease cortisol, our stress hormone, as well as lower blood pressure and reduce heart rate.
  • Music increases the brains neuroplasticity, enhancing brain functions like mood regulation, decision making, and memory.

A study done by Mindlab International revealed that the song “Weightless” by Marconi Union resulted in a 65% reduction in participants’ overall anxiety (Dr. David Lewis-Hodgson).

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  • Ludovico Einaudi
  • Claude Debussy
  • Johann Sebastian Bach
  • José González
  • Laraaji
  • Bill Evans
  • Vance Joy
  • The Paper Kites
  • Moby
  • Tycho

Aromatherapy

  • Aromatherapy can be a helpful, low- cost (or free) tool for people managing eating disorders.
  • Aromatherapy involves using essential oils to help manage emotions and restore balance.
  • Scents can help ground people, encouraging mindfulness about physical and emotional sensations.
  • Can promote a tranquil environment and give a sense (& scent) of peace.
    • creates an atmosphere for individuals to feel safe in processing emotions

Lavender has been shown to reduce anxiety levels. It is seen as a “anxiolytic” solution to providing a coping method for those with anxiety disorders (Yoo & Park, 2023).

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  • Lavender: calm, sleep, relax
  • Chamomile: calm
  • Rose: anxiety reduction
  • Lemon: energy, nausea reduction, concentration
  • Orange: brighten, uplift
  • Jasmine: anxiety reduce, sleep
  • Peppermint: alertness
  • Ylang ylang: calming, stress and anxiety reduction
  • Rosemary: focus

Art

  • Art can help provide a safe space for communication.
  • It can promote a sense of relaxation, and become a calming, meditative like experience (especially in “flow state”).
  • Gives an outlet and coping mechanism for managing difficult emotions.
  • Helps develop healthy habits and routines for self-management.
  • Increases an individuals sense of awareness and understanding of their emotions and thoughts.

Art can boost cognitive function, emotional resilience and self-confidence. It has also been shown to reduce stress and aid in conflict resolution (Hudson University, 2024).

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  • Coloring books
  • Digital coloring or drawing
  • Collaging
  • Sketchbook/journaling/ diary
  • Painting
  • Water coloring
  • Air dry clay (model magic) or traditional clay (ceramics)
  • Photography (use your phone!)
  • So much more!

Creative Journaling & Writing

  • Journaling allows space for self reflection, and emotional release.
  • Free writing can help you connect to your inner voice without judgment.
    • This can look like a steam on consciousness, a short story, or even poetry.
  • Both of these can give you space to problem solve, and look at a situation from a new angle.
  • Try out a prompt, or guided writing exercise if free writing isn’t your thing.
    • Examples & resources below!

Positive writing has been shown to promote positive emotions, as well as positive cognitive mechanisms in the general population (Lai et al., 2023).

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  • What are three things I’m grateful for today?
  • Write a letter to your future self. What do you want to tell them?
  • Write about a positive affirmation you want to start telling yourself.
  • How do you like to relax? Write about your favorite way to unwind.
  • What does “peace” look like to you? How can you bring more of it into your life?
  • What is something that always makes you laugh or brings you joy?

Self-Care / Self-Talk

Positive Self Talk

  • Positive affirmations are short, encouraging statements that can help build our self-esteem and challenge negative thoughts.
  • Repeating these statements daily can help foster a more loving relationship with yourself over time.
    • “Mirror-work” is when you look into the mirror and say kind, positive affirmations to yourself. It might feel awkward at first.
    • Try statements such as “I am enough,” “I am deserving of all the good things life has to offer,” or “I am strong, capable, and confident in everything I do.”
  • This can help build mental resilience, making it easier to cope with challenges and setbacks.
  • They can elevate your mood and promote a more optimistic view of life.
  • They help build confidence and self-worth by focusing on your strengths and capabilities.

Self Care

  • Self-care directly impacts emotional, psychological, and physical well-being.
  • Engaging in regular self care practices helps maintain balance and resilience, ensuring we can cope with life’s challenges.
  • Regular self-care allows the body and mind to recover, recharge, and maintain a sense of calm.
  • Taking care of yourself helps prevent burnout by ensuring you have the energy and mental capacity to meet the demands of life.
    • Without regular self care, you may become overwhelmed, leading to fatigue, frustration, and decreased productivity.
  • Giving yourself mental space helps clear your mind, improving focus, decision-making, and problem-solving.
  • Allows you to engage in activities that bring you joy, pleasure, and fulfillment. These experiences elevate mood and provide moments of peace and happiness.

Positive Self Talk

Affirming personal values has been linked to boosting ones happiness and meaning in life (Nelson et al., 2014). MRI’s show that self- affirmations affect brain activity! (Cascio et al., 2015).

Self Care

“Engaging in a self- care routine has been clinically proven to reduce or eliminate anxiety and depression, reduce stress, improve concentration, minimize frustration and anger, increase happiness, improve energy and more. From a physical health perspective, it has also been clinically proven to reduce heart disease, stroke and cancer” (Glowiak, 2024).

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POSITIVE SELF TALK

 

SELF CARE

  • Up to personal preference, ideas listed in the guide
  • Sleep: Make sure you get enough hours in
  • Making time for hobbies: painting, gardening, etc.
  • Doing chores: cleaning dishes, doing laundry, cleaning space, decluttering
  • Spending time outdoors: taking nature walks, sitting in a park
  • Being with people you love: friends, family, partners
  • Reading or learning: something of interest, and limiting technology/screen time
  • Personal care: shower, bath, deep breathing, meditation, massaging
  • Treating yourself: occasionally indulging yourself with something you love (ex: buying a new book, or a coffee from your favorite shop)
  • Mental care: attending peer support groups (for free with ANAD!), going to therapy (we can help connect you with someone)